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Questions, answered.
Plain-English guides to toys, lube, bodies and communication. No judgment, no jargon, and nothing you need to be embarrassed about asking.
How to Talk to a Partner About Adding Toys
Worried a partner will take it the wrong way? A simple script for a conversation that usually goes better than you expect.
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21
Sep
Sep
Kegels 101: A Plain-English Guide to Your Pelvic Floor
Everyone has a pelvic floor. Here is how to find it, how to train it, and when to see a professional instead.
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08
Sep
Sep
Your First Vibrator: A No-Pressure Buyer’s Guide
Bullet, wand, rabbit or air-pulse? How to choose a first vibrator without overthinking it.
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25
Aug
Aug
How to Clean and Store Your Toys
Clean before and after, dry completely, store separately. Here is the full routine, by material.
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11
Aug
Aug
Water, Silicone or Oil? The Lube Compatibility Guide
Pick the wrong lube and you can damage a toy or break a condom. A two-minute guide to getting it right.
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28
Jul
Jul
Body-Safe Toy Materials: What to Look For and What to Avoid
Not every toy is made from something you want inside your body. Here is how to tell silicone from "jelly" and why it matters.
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14
Jul
Jul